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THE PRICE OF ENLIGHTENMENT
Dāna
and the
question of charging for the spiritual teachings
NON DUAL SPIRITUALITY
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23. SCOTT KILOBY
Scott Kiloby is the creator of the Living Inquiries
(www.livinginquiries.com)
and Natural Rest for Addiction (www.naturalrestforaddiction.com).
He is opening up an addiction recovery center in Palm
Springs, California called "The Kiloby Center for
Recovery" in February 2014 where he and other
facilitators of his work will be working with people on
addiction and any other type of psychological and
emotional suffering (www.kilobycenter.com
).
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What
are your thoughts on Dana? Do you feel this modal can work in
our times and culture?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/D%C4%81na
Scott Kiloby: It seems to be that
your most basic question is “should teachers charge money?”
whether it’s by donation or simply charging. My question back to
you is this: from what perspective or culture is the question
being asked and what perspective or culture is supposed to
answer it?
I find
great difficultly answering questions that are looking for some
objective response, as if I can tap into the morally righteous,
proper and ultimate answer to the question, as if I am sitting
on a mountain top holding in my hand the ultimate laws of the
universe. Although some teachings would like to purport to be
sitting in this position with all the answers, a quick perusal
of history shows that the answer to these questions depends
almost entirely on context. Simply put, ask the question and you
will get many, many different responses. As you can see from
your interviews already, this is the case. We don’t live in one
vacuum where the answer to these questions is neatly tucked away
in a book somewhere. No one governs these matters exclusively.
No one
that you have interviewed can speak on behalf of all teachers,
or all humans or even on behalf of truth, because these issues
are molded and created and look differently within different
teachings, cultures and perspectives. What is true in one
tradition might be false or even blasphemous in another
tradition. Charging or donating for these services might be
considered proper in one culture yet completely unacceptable in
another culture. And these teachings, Buddhism and Advaita, from
which you speak have now grown and morphed into not only
different schools but also western refinements that no longer
even look like Buddhist or Advaita teachings of the past (even
if they were in part influenced by them). Plus western culture
looks very differently at these things than eastern cultures.
And you have different perspectives and frameworks even within
western culture or eastern culture. I’m not trying to be
dismissive of your question but the way it is posed, seemingly
asking for an objective answer, doesn’t really fit with how I
see these things. It is not one size answer that fits all. I
find nothing objective, literally nothing (not even that
statement).
Now, if
you are asking me, personally, do you think I should charge
money? Most of the content on my sites is free. But yes, I do
charge for sessions. And I think its a good idea obviously since
I do it. But I say all that with a caveat (which I will explain
below). Many teachers, including myself, live in the West where
money is a part of the system, the way the wheel turns, for
better or worse. Even giving a talk or having a website or
having someone maintain the website or traveling to a talk takes
money. If a teacher is independently wealthy, I can see how
charging wouldn’t be necessary. I am not independently wealthy.
Far from it. So I pass the cost onto those attending. This is
what allows me to continue doing this work.
The particular work I do involves facilitators who make
themselves available online, all day for people. And for those
facilitators to make themselves available, they cannot also be
working another job. So they charge for their services too.
But
here’s the caveat: the key is to look at the proper attitude
around money, for me.
Am I
charging just for personal gain or is the money being filtered
back into ways to make this work more available. To date, it’s
definitely been the latter.
I’ve
looked long and hard at the issue of money, looking with my own
living inquiries to see if I can find an ultimate command to
make money, a threat in making money or not making money,
whether there is a self here that is financially secure or
insecure, whether there is a self here that doesn’t deserve
money, all of it. After all that looking, I feel very clear
about the issue. And my behavior in charging reflects my own
clarity around this issue. Money, itself, is not the issue. It’s
how one looks at it, from what angle, and what one’s motivation
is (all depending upon context, of course). This is what is true
for me in my path, to live with the utmost integrity based on my
own deep looking at what motivates me or doesn’t motivate me.
And that’s an ongoing looking, where my view is subject to
change at any time.
Also,
each month for years, I have given to certain charities involved
with helping end hunger and helping children and animals. I work
with many people for free who cannot pay. At any given point, I
have very little money in the bank. So, if it is my desire to do
this for personal gain only, which it isn’t, I’m doing a really
bad job of it.
Having said
all that, I hope that you can see that my answer is not intended
as an objective statement about what teachers should or should
not do. I’m only answering from my perspective, which is
certainly molded by things like culture, tradition (or lack
thereof), perspective, etc – just as yours would be if you
answered the question.
Here’s also
an article by Ken Wilber which is quite interesting about how
cultures are different and trying to translate this question
into modern life has some difficulties with it.
www.kenwilber.com/Writings/PDF/RightBucks_GENERAL_b42000.pdf
Yes I asked Ken Wilber for an interview on that article
but he didn't respond. What about trade marking the teachings as
some have done with "Big mind", or "Bikram yoga" and so on?
Scott Kiloby:
The answer goes back to the same context question. In the states
for example, trademarking is very common with all sorts of
services. I realize that some believe that trademarking for a
spiritual teaching can seem blasphemous. But it seems that way
only from one's viewpoint, not from another's. I suppose for
those that trademark something, they are hoping that people will
recognize a certain name and know that there is quality work
there that can be trusted or quality teaching. That's normally
what trademarks are for. For example, I don't go to Joe Smith
down the road to learn how to play golf if Joe Smith doesn't
know how to teach golf well. But if Tommy down the road does
teach it well and he needs to trademark so that I can find him,
that's not an issue for me.
In a sense, it's like asking "what about meat, should people eat
meat?" My answer is yes, some people eat meat in various parts
of the world and it's not a problem for them, even if it is a
problem through the eyes of some other perspective. We can
always try to influence each other with our perspectives. For
example, if someone were to convince me that trademarking a
teaching is really a bad idea, I could be convinced. Who
knows.... I don't see it as an issue, but respect those who do.
Some of this goes back to unexamined notions of right and wrong,
which are virtually always context driven and not absolute.
END
OF INTERVIEW
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