Dāna
and the
question of charging for the spiritual teachings
PART
1
NON DUAL SPIRITUALITY
15. ROBERT SALTZMAN
Dr. Robert Saltzman practices psychotherapy in Todos
Santos, Mexico. In discussing the connections and
differences between that work and spiritual teaching, he
has written this:
As a practicing psychologist, I earn fees for my service
and expertise in psychotherapy. This I consider right
livelihood. Since people occasionally approach me for
what they imagine will be "spiritual instruction," I am
obliged to distinguish between my paid therapy work and
that other kind of exploration, for which I would never
want to charge a fee. Although I find myself unable to
state the precise criteria upon which I make such a
distinction, I
do make it, even to the extent of having said to
therapy clients, "Now we have embarked upon matters
which I do not see as belonging to our therapy work. We
can continue down this road, but, if we do, you will
have to give up being a client--your “choice.”
What are your thoughts on the traditional practice of dana in
reference to teachings?
Robert Saltzman: As I understand this, dana--which means giving
or generosity--has been a part of traditional Buddhist practice
since early times. Although generosity is not one of the items
in the noble eightfold path, the idea often seems to be that
practicing dana provides merit or "improvement of karma" for the
giver. Since you ask for my reflections, I must say that I do
not think in that way at all. I seek neither merit (whatever
that means) nor improved karma, but simply allow things to
arise as they will without any consideration of choosing, doing,
gaining, or improving anything. I would never find myself
involved in a practice of dana or any other practice with a view
towards acquiring some kind of boon, blessing, or supposed
advancement. In fact, I wonder if entertaining such acquisitive
thoughts while supposedly "giving" can be considered generosity
at all. I doubt it.
Do you think this same practice should be applied with
contemporary non dual teachings, or is it ok for a contemporary
non dual teacher to charge and conduct business the way a
psychologist or scientist would?
Robert Saltzman: Your question seems to assume that "nonduality"
can be
taught. I do not think it can. Really
seeing
that all phenomena arise only in relation to other
phenomena—what the Buddhists call “dependent origination,” or,
as John Donne expressed it, “No man is an island”--cannot, I
say, be taught or learned, but only
noticed
now in this very moment. Yes, one can speak those words or hear
them, but speaking and hearing words does not make the penny
drop. Never has, never will.
This does not mean that nothing can be taught or learned, but
that true nature (or what we really already are) is neither
taught nor learned, but simply recognized as a sudden abruption
in the habitual flow usually called “myself.” Such clear seeing
arises when and as it will, and no one controls that nor can
make it happen--not in the slightest degree. Neither can clear
seeing, which is more precious by far than rubies, be bought,
sold, or even transferred gratis.
Further, the very acquisition of second-hand information about
some fantasized condition which the “teacher” has supposedly
“realized,” and now can teach “you,” gets things in the wrong
order entirely. First, I say, one must get to the bottom of ones
own
situation by means of asking
oneself
questions--not expecting, I mean, that some imagined expert
should provide answers. As the Zen teacher said to the lazy
student, “Get the hell out of here, and go make your own
living!”
Taking on second-hand “knowledge” (which is really
belief,
for knowledge cannot
be
taught--only
beliefs
can be taught) before being well established in ones own
baseline suffering only creates fantasy worlds, giving birth to
ever more numerous attachments, and flights of fancy about
so-called “enlightenment.” That is escapism, not freedom. There
is
no freedom on the road of acquired knowledge and second-hand
beliefs.
Freedom arises--or perhaps it is better to say,
becomes apparent--neither through coming to believe what
someone else believes, no matter how supposedly authoritative
that source, nor by acquiring knowledge, but through
not
knowing, through coming up against the
limitations of knowing, so that at last one appreciates the
mysterious
nature of being. I call this blessed event the recognition of
the sublimity of the face of human limitation. When first we see
that face in the mirror, it is smiling back at us. How joyous
that meeting.
That said, the world turns, and things are as they are, so I
suppose that just as Zen took on different flavors when
transplanted into new cultures, advaita philosophy must have its
innings too. Yes, Advaita Western Style seems to contain more
than a hint of entrepreneurship, which personally I find
dissonant and a bit sad. But that part of human nature never
seems to change very much. Money and so-called "spirituality"
have often displayed a troubled co-dependence, and not just in
America. Ah well. To quote my old pal, the late Bill Gersh, "You
get what you get when you get it."
Did your teacher, Walter Chappell, charge you for the knowledge?
Robert Saltzman: Walter taught primarily by example--by
living his truth, not by talking about it. Walter never once
uttered the term "nonduality"--not in my presence at least.
Anyway, the point of our studies was not about
attaining
anything--particularly not, for example, some putative state in
which "nothing was ever born and nothing ever dies" (pure
speculation), or becoming a so-called “realized being,” (total
oxymoron)--but only about being honestly and exactly as one
really is in this moment. This, in Walter-speak, is “your
obligatoire.”
Walter gave me one basic instruction which was, as George
Gurdjieff (Walter's teacher's teacher) put it, "Life is real
only then when I AM." Apart from that, he just kept showing me
how far away I was from continuously living my own "I AMness."
Walter taught without using many words simply by living I AM
himself—his
obligatoire--no matter what the circumstances. His crazy wisdom
pranks and acerbic ridicule, aimed at highlighting my foolish
egotism, stung a lot at the time, I recall. Painful work, but
well worth it.
Walter had been given a similar working over by his
teacher--gratis of course--and would never have thought of
accepting any payment from me as the wheel turned making him the
teacher. In my gratitude, I served Walter in various
ways--cooking meals, bringing firewood, etc., which I suppose
could be called dana, but money was never part of the equation,
and Walter, a free spirit, had little interest in money anyway.
He was a giver, not a taker.
Many of the contemporary non dual teachings in the west seem to
derive out of three or four Indian teachers: Ramana Maharshi,
Nisargadatta, Papaji and Atmananda Krishna Menon. However, it
has been documented that none of these advaita teachers in India
charged any of their western students; some of whom went on to
become well known teachers in the states. Some of these western
teachers appear to charge in some ways for the teachings.
Is there anything wrong or right with taking something for free
from one culture and then turning around and making a profit in
another?
I prefer not to think in terms of wrong and right or should and
shouldn't. In this moment, things are as they are and cannot
be any different no matter what judgments arise. Naturally,
this "things as they are" includes the irony of wiseacres
prattling about “liberation” while clinging, not just to money
and possessions, but to prestige, fame, power, and sensual
pleasure as well. From here, that already seems a fool's
paradise, and asserting that one deserves to make a living from
such vanity, or even to become wealthy while standing on the
shoulders of giants, hardly seems compatible with claims of
self-realization.
If you only sit on a throne parroting the ideas of Nisargadatta
or Ramana, why charge a fee at all? How did you earn it? And why
would I want to hear
your
parroted version when I can simply read the published words of
Nisargadatta if I like? Or, if Nisargadatta's descriptions of
his own situation are not sufficiently didactic, one can always
read--gratis of course--the "Detailed Instructions" of Han-Shan
(14th century), or the “Platform Sutra” of Hui Neng (7th
century). It’s all there. Just google.
All of this “nonduality,” as you well know, John, has been said
before, and beautifully. The professional nondual teacher, who
simply buffs it up with a 21st century gloss--often, by the way,
screwing it up through over-simplification (the nonsense about
“presence,” for example) or frank misunderstanding--and then
sells that “product” at a profit, seems a bit parasitic, don’t
you think?
Freedom and equanimity are here and now--always here and now.
Money cannot buy them. In my experience, this is shared gladly
and with open hands. The very sharing is a joy in and of itself.
No one ever paid to sit with Ramana, and he even fed and
sheltered those who came to see him. Nisargadatta would not
accept even the smallest gift, I have heard. Like Walter, they
were givers, not takers.
Still, if someone gives a talk and asks for a small donation to
offset the rental of the hall or whatever, OK by me. Life is
life, after all. But when a teacher makes a cash-flow business
of dispensing so-called "nondual truth" for profit, I say look
elsewhere. How could a mirror distorted by such ambitions ever
fairly reflect true nature?
What are your thoughts on the following quote?
Arjuna Ardagh said "There's a common saying in India that if a
teacher charges money for "the dharma" (loosely translated,
"teachings about the truth") he or she will go to a special
section of hell set aside for spiritual entrepreneurs, an area
cornered off and designed to be much nastier than the areas for
axe murderers, rapists, and the like."
Robert Saltzman: If taken metaphorically, I guess it's OK in a
way. But if anyone takes it literally--believes, I mean, in
future punishment in "hell"--that would be foolish, don't you
think? And millions of people around the world
do
take such words literally.
Hell, if you want to call it that, must be, along with
everything else, here and now. It could never be some pending
punishment awaiting the “sinner” at some later time. There
is
no “later time.” So hell, which we see all around us, inheres
simply in the ordinary mental, physical, and emotional sorrows
of human life unredeemed by wisdom and ease of the ease of
loving kindness.
Belief in future punishment for sins and reward for following
the rules is a credulous fantasy, I say, and the Hindus, for all
their vaunted Vedanta seem as oppressed by their superstitious
beliefs as Christians or Moslems by theirs. It's a sad, sad
picture, and I have zero interest in any of it.
I say discard
all
belief, including any theory about what "will happen." No one
knows anything about all that, and anyone who claims to know is,
as I see it, either deluded or a charlatan.
But the dance of buying and selling is a
pas de
deux, is it not, John? Why focus on vilifying the greedy
entrepreneurs for doing only what most animals do--trying to
feather their nests—while giving a pass to the greedy seekers
who are equal partners in this foolishness?
Yes, the professional teachers, for the most part, sell a bunch
of bombast, balderdash, and meaningless verbiage, masquerading
as something worth hearing, but they get away with it only
because the “students” act like junkies waiting for the next
fix. Some of them even know that the product is poison, but just
can't keep themselves from jonesing for the next book, video,
workshop or satsang.
If any of that palaver were
really
useful, why are there not millions of "enlightened" students by
now, and why is the SAND conference not out of business due to
non-attendance? As if!
A fool and his money are soon parted, so if one self-anointed
dharma teacher doesn't grab the cash, another surely will. To
put this another way, a glutton for "spirituality" who demands,
and is willing to pay for being spoon-fed a bunch of warmed-over
mimicry, will surely locate an expert wielding a spoon. True
hearts are not so easily swindled.
How do you see this? Is a conditional prepaid donation “dana?”
What is the difference between a "voluntary donation" and
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Robert Saltzman:
Some "teachers," both in the last century and in this one, have
devoted great energy towards acquiring name and fame—now called
“branding”—to be systematically “monitized.” There is not enough
double speak in
any
language to camouflage that kind of transaction. The dollar
signs seem to jump out from the page in that advert, don't they?
Now, people have always wanted to market their philosophies,
views, and opinions—authors write books, professors deliver
lectures, pundits opine on talk shows. In this conversation, you
have focused upon selling "spiritual" teaching--specifically
selling the findings of many centuries of Vedanta by teachers
who learned the jargon without paying for it, but now feel
justified in charging for parroting that jargon.
It does seem a curious kind of business. As a flowering shrub
automatically perfumes the entire bower, Ramana, Nisargadatta,
and the others simply scattered, and often with laughter, their
gems. Now their imitators want to rearrange a few words here and
there, invent some catch-phrases, perhaps stir in a little
psychological and relationship mumbo-jumbo, and market that
pastiche to the naive eager beavers. Fortunately, I am not in
their shoes, so this is only a hunch, but what if, while
learning the
words
of Ramana and Nisargadatta-- or the Buddha, or Jesus, for that
matter--these apprentices failed to understand the
heart
of what was being said?
Someone who
really
gets it, I suspect, would not be able to justify selling that
sublimity. The
real
thing cannot
be
sold anyway. If you paid cash for it, I say, most likely you
bought a fugazi.
That said, I have little interest in judging what others say or
do. In my view, no one is to blame for anything. Finding myself
in the throes of this
mysterium
tremendum--being human, I mean--I imagine that everyone is
doing the best he or she can, no matter how bad or “evil” that
might appear from to an outside observer. Think of the six
realms in Buddhism: human being is one kind of dance, and hungry
ghost quite another. And no one gets to choose in which realm
one finds oneself, or to choose anything else for that matter.
All of this is entirely subjective. No one is in control of
anything. When seeing changes, behavior changes—not because
someone
tries to change anything, but because that's just the way
the cookie crumbles.