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 THE CELIBACY QUESTION

 

THERAVADA  BUDDHISM

 


 

 

 

 

Bhante Shravasti Dhammika was born in Australia in 1951 into a Christian family, and   became a Buddhist at the age of eighteen. In 1973 he went to Thailand with the intention of becoming a monk then to Laos, Burma and finally to India. For the next three years, he traveled around India learning yoga and meditation, and finally ordaining as a monk under Venerable Matiwella Sangharatna, the last disciple of Anagarika Dharmapala. In 1976 he went to Sri Lanka where he studied Pali at Sri Lanka Vidyalaya, and later became a co-founder and teacher of Nilambe Meditation Centre in Kandy. Since then, he has spent most of his time in Sri Lanka and Singapore. Bhante  Dhammika had written over 25 books and scores of articles on Buddhism and related subjects and his most popular book Good Question Good Answer has been translated into 31 languages.  He is also well-known for his public talks and represented Theravada Buddhism at the European Buddhist Millennium Conference in Berlin in 2000. Apart from Buddhist philosophy and meditation, he has a deep interest in the historical topography of Buddhism and the tradition of pilgrimage and has  traveled widely in India and other Buddhist lands. His others interests include Indian history, art and botany. At present he lives in Singapore.  

www.bdms.org.sg/ Buddha Dhamma Mandala Society, Ven. Dhammika is the spiritual head of this temple

 

 

INTERVIEW

 

 Part 1.  Charging for the spiritual teachings

 

NDM: I would like to ask you about your book THE BROKEN BUDDHA. Critical Reflections on Theravada and a Plea for a New Buddhism.

 

www.buddhistische-gesellschaft-berlin.de/downloads/brokenbuddhanew.pdf

 

NDM: What kind of feedback, or reviews did you attain so far for writing this book?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  People seem to have reacted to my book in one of three ways. Those who have spent time in Theravadin countries either as monks, nuns or lay people, have tended to have a “So what’s new?” attitude. Several have admitted that there are serious problems while questioning my motives for highlighting them. Those who have only encountered Theravada in the West have, for the most part, reacted very negatively. I suppose this is because my book paints a very different picture from what some people imagine and because they have had generally positive experiences with the monks they have met in the West. Quite a few others have basically said that most religious institutions go bad and why should Theravada be any different. My hope in writing the book was that it would stimulate thoughtful debate and discussion of how Buddhism should develop in the West; what should be taken from and learned from the tradition and what reject and put aside. From what I am aware of so far there has only been either agreement or disagreement or indifference.

 

NDM: Didn’t the Buddha actually say to examine the teachings in the Kalama sutta?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  The Buddha said a lot of things. But the teacher saying something and the students/disciples following what is said is another thing altogether. In much of Asia Buddhism is a tradition, a part of the culture, intimately related to ethnic or national identity. Few people can or do ever question it or see it apart from all these things. I like to say that Buddhism in Asia is like an old man; and the old spend most of their time thinking about the past. Buddhism in the west is like an adolescent; and teens focus all their energy and attention on the future, because the world and all it offers them is fresh, new and undiscovered. We have the possibility of examining the Dhamma relatively free from age-old presuppositions and biases. The Buddhist scriptures have only recently been translated into Thai, Burmese, Sinhala, etc and even now are not widely available. In the English speaking world at least, we have access to accurate, readable translations of the Buddha’s words, from any good bookshop at affordable prices; perhaps the first time in history this has happened. Now we can examine the Buddha’s teaching, consider then and discuss them. In this sense we are very blessed.

 

NDM: What is your view on the handling of currency, especially for western Theravadin monks that live in the US in particular?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: The fact that we are still debating this minor issue, wringing our hands over it and shaking our heads about it, says something about western Buddhism. I have lived in Buddhist Asia for nearly 40 years now and other than the small number of forest-living ascetics monks, I have only rarely encountered monks who don’t use money. In Asia its normal and uncontroversial. I can see no harm in a monk buying a $2 bus ticket or a book he needs or whatever. My teacher used to say: "It’s alright if the money touches your hand, as long as it doesn’t touch your heart."

 

NDM: What is your view on charging 8 to 10 dollars sliding scale, per meditation class, plus a dhamma talk, but also adding a donation on top for the teacher?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika The idea of charging to Dhamma teaching is quite at odds with the early Buddhist tradition. In the Udana the Buddha said: "One should not go about making a business out of the Dhamma" and his famous statement in the Dhammapada that the gift of the Dhamma excels all gifts again underlined the point that the Dhamma is or should be a gift. I am very much for Buddhism being adopted to the realities of western society, but I do think that the commercialization of the Dhamma in the west is a very unfortunate trend. Many western teachers go to Burma or Thailand, become monks for a while, are freely instructed in the Dhamma, looked after by the lay community with great generosity, and then return home and charge for teaching what they were taught for free. I do not think this is right. I think that sharing the Dhamma with others should be seen as a privilege and a blessing, not as a means of livelihood. I see nothing wrong with asking for donations to help cover costs at the end of a meditation course. The well-known meditation teacher Goenka never charged for his teaching but relied entirely on donations and it never seems to have hindered him from conducting numerous meditation retreats and establishing many meditation centers. If he could do it why cant others?

 

NDM: Can a sexually active worldly lay teacher, even be dana worthy?  Why should anyone take instruction from someone who can’t even get past lust for example but teach about this?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: There is no reason why a person who is not celibate cannot teach Dhamma in an authentic and competent manner. The Buddhas disciple Isiadatta attained the first stage of enlightenment while living a happily married life. And he was not the only one. The qualifications for being a good Dhamma or meditation teacher should be that you abide by the Precepts, that you know the Dhamma well and have had plenty of meditation experience, and that you avoid falling into what I call "the guru trap". Lay teachers are as worthy of dana as is anyone else – if you take dana to mean generosity or sharing, which is what it does mean. If you take it to mean a fee that is another matter.

 

NDM:  What is your view on some teachers that trademark aspects of the Buddhist dharma, or merge and blend it with psychology, science, create a new sort of flavor, or name for it?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika You mean some teachers actually trademark or copyright some aspects of meditation?

 

NDM: Yes, aspects of this like “Big mind” please see here. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Mind

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: I have not heard of this before. The Buddha spent 40 years walking through northern India, over rough roads, through all kinds of weather, so that as many people as possible could hear his Dhamma. He taught what he knew to everyone, even to outcastes who were shunned by the rest of society. And if you read the Maha Parinibbana Sutta you will see that even as he lay sick and dying he allowed people to approach him to ask about the Dhamma. And now some want to trademark the Dhamma! What a betrayal!

 

I have always believed that contemporary psychology is a wonderful resource that can help fine tune some aspects of the Buddhist understanding of consciousness and of meditation. But it must always be kept in mind that psychology's goal is therapeutic, to help people better function in the world. Buddhisms primary focus is spiritual, to help us transcend the world. The first is a good foundation for the second. But if we reduced meditation to being just a therapy we will deprive ourselves of the many priceless treasures it offers.

 

NDM:  Today in the west there is a “Proclaim-Your-Attainments” American form of Buddhism emerging. One of these teachers (who is married) and claims to be an arahant says.

“I believe that when Western dharma teachers can earn a moderate, middle-class income by dharma teaching alone, the dharma will have truly arrived in the West.”

What are your thoughts on this?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika I suppose it is to be expected that the values of a modern capitalist consumer society should become common in our discourse and be taken for granted, and even lauded; by which I mean celebrity, self-promotion, wealth, success, conspicuous consumption, etc. I suppose it is even to be expected that these values should intrude into spirituality; the so-called prosperity gospel being an example of this happening. What saddens me is that so many people are taken in by greed and ego masquerading as spirituality, and that the modest, gently and reasoned proclaiming of the Dhamma is drowned out by the loud, slick, clamour of fast-talking gurus. What can be done given such a situation? Do your best to remain true to the Dhamma and share it with anyone who is receptive to it. As for the others, well, they make their choice and will arrive at whatever destination such paths lead

 

NDM: In your book you write: "Quite understandably, Asian Theravadins expect you to follow their traditions and not question them. You can point out that certain practices or ideas are not in the Tipitaka or are even contrary to it but it will make no difference. Right or wrong, inane or practical, thats how it has always been done and that's what you must do."

 

Can you please give me an example of some of the traditions that are not so practical, or wrong so to speak?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: In Thailand a monk must not take anything directly from a woman's hand. The woman has to put whatever she wants to give the monk on a cloth which he then draws towards him so he can then take the gift whatever it is. This practice is not mentioned in the Vinaya and is not done in Sri Lanka or Burma. A Sri Lankan monk or Western monk who is unaware of this custom when first arriving in Thailand and receives something directly from a woman will be looked upon with considerable disapproval and pulled into line very quickly. Shortly after I arrived in Sri Lanka I used to talk to the Tamil man who used to clean the monastery toilets. I felt sorry for him because he has such a lousy job and was generally treated with contempt. Occasionally I would give him things that had been given to me which I hadn’t used. One day the abbot took me aside and basically told me that it was not proper for a monk to be familiar with this guy. I think the abbot's attitude was partly due to a general dislike of Tamils and partly because the man was low caste. In Buddhist countries local customs, superstitions and traditions often trump the Dhamma. I suppose this the same with all religions.

 

 

Part 2. Celibacy

 

 

NDM: How important is being celibate in order to attain nibbana?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: There is no doubt that the Buddha saw sex as a hindrance to the highest attainments. There seems to be two reactions to this. Those who are sexually active and intend to remain so either ignore this teaching or twist it to make it say something other than what it says. Others think; "Okay! That's it! No more sex for me and I'm on my way to Nirvana." Both these reactions are problematic. The first is dishonest, while the second mistakes causes and effects. Becoming celibate is no guarantee of enlightenment or even of mature concentration or mindfulness. According to the texts, a person can attain up to at least the second stage of enlightenment while still being sexually active. I think beyond that it is not that you have to give up sex but rather that sex gives you up. As you spiritually mature you just lose interest in all sensual preoccupations. The refined joy of spiritual attainments makes sensual delights look rather tawdry.

 

NDM: Is it possible to become an arahant (fully enlightened) and still be sexually active?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika Phrased in that way I think this question embodies the cause and effect mistake I mentioned before. It also gives the impression that an arahat may like to have sex but he restrains from doing so. Celibacy does not cause enlightenment, nor is it a prerequisite for enlightenment. However, the course of spiritual growth may well go like this; not being preoccupied with sensual pleasures, limiting them, refraining from them, and then naturally having interest in sensual pleasures fade away. An enlightened person does not need sensual gratification any more.

 

NDM: What is your view on some of the other traditions like tantra that use sex to become enlightened?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika I think tantra owes as much to religious concepts that became current in Indian spirituality in the late medieval period than it does to early Buddhism.

 

NDM: Did the Buddha ever teach tantra in private to Kings or anyone else?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: In the Anguttara Nikaya the Buddha said; "Three things shine openly, not in secret. What three? The orb of the moon, the orb of the sun and the Dhamma and discipline taught by the Tathāgata." He reiterated this same point just before his final Nirvana when he said; "I have proclaimed the Dhamma without any idea of a hidden and open teaching. I do not have the closed fist of the teacher who holds anything back."

 

Text that credit the Buddha with teaching tantra can be shown very easily, by their language, the concepts they embody, by the social information they contain, etc, to date from after the 7th and 8th centuries CE. The famous Kalacakra Tantra mentions the Islamic invasion of India which we know from history occurred in the late 11th century. Some take this as evidence that the Buddha was able to prophesise future events. Others take it as evidence that the Kalacakra was composed in the 11th century. Each person has to make their own decision about this.

 

NDM: Is it possible to be enlightened, and then be reincarnated in this realm like some traditions claim?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: To the best of my knowledge this idea is unique to Tibetan Buddhism. I think it can be considered a development of the Dhamma that took place against the background of Tibet's particular political and social conditions.

 

NDM:  But if one attains nibbana, what could reincarnate exactly? How does this happen, is this some kind of special siddhi?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:You would have to ask some rimpoche about this. To me it contradicts the most basic Dhamma.

 

NDM: What happens to the aggregates, the five Skandhas, can they reform into a new personality with a memory again in some other realm?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  I’m just a simple monk. Ask a rimpoche.

 

NDM: How does this reincarnation fit with dependant origination (Pratītyasamutpāda) if one attains nibanna?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  It doesn’t fit into it.

 

NDM: Why do you think tantric Buddhism is so popular then, much more than Theravada it seems? Is it mostly pr?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: Manufactures learned a long time ago that if you want to sell your product use sex in your advertisements. In many people’s minds the word tantra conjures up images of guiltless and unrestrained sex. What is usually passed off as tantra today is, as far as I can see, just sex with a bit of gimcrack spirituality thrown in. Tibetan Buddhism includes elements of tantra although sex has only a minor role in this. The dominance of Tibetan Buddhism in the west is an interesting phenomenon. I think the personality of the Dalai Lama has something to do with it. Some Tibetan teachers have profound meditation experience. Tibetan teachers tend to be more flexible than their Theravadin counterparts which help promote Tibetan Buddhism.

 

NDM: Is samsara also nirvana like they say in some traditions?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: This idea is not present in the Pali Canon. I always find such paradoxical and enigmatic statements very appealing. The same goes for those wonderful Zen koans. But as far as the situation on the ground is concerned I think they are pretty useless. If samsara and Nirvana are the same what the hell is the point of becoming a pilgrim on the Noble Eightfold Path or indeed doing anything? I suppose I'm rather dualistic. But I'm content to be because I suspect that those who go on about samsara and Nirvana being the same are in fact just as dualistic as I am.

 

NDM:  What is your view on making public declarations about attainments (jhana or the paths)?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika: The Buddha said that to falsely claim higher attainments is an extremely serious offence, and with good reason. He also thought it improper for monks and nuns at least to advertise even genuine attainments, again I think with good reason. I am not sure whether the jhanas would be considered attainments that would fall into this category. But if you have attained, say, the first stage of enlightenment, and someone asks you if you have, what are you to do? Tell a lie?

 

Generally, I think the best way to declare your spiritual attainments is by how you speak and act, by your behaviour. In a very interesting discourse, the Vimamsaka Sutta, the Buddha gives detailed and practical ways to judge if a teacher is worthy of your tutelage. It includes, seeing if what they teach is consistent with their behaviour, to see if their public persona differs from their private one, to see if their virtues are stable in that they are apparent over a long period of time. Most interesting of all, he says that there are some defilements that only arise after a teacher becomes famous, and therefore see if a teacher has been changed by popularity and success. Like so many of the Buddhas discourses this one offers very sound advice.

 

NDM: Do you mean the spiritually conceited teachers?

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  A person can be genuinely and sincerely modest, gentle, patient, etc. until their normal situation changes. Then they become arrogant, rough, impatient, etc. In other words, their virtues were no deep, not the result of insights, of fundamental changes. If such a thing happens this would demonstrate that the person still had a lot of work to do, and certainly that they were not enlightened. But this raises an important point. Everyone wants an enlightened teacher. It’s an ego thing. The reality is that if you are intelligent and receptive you can learn from someone who is just a bit more spiritually mature or insightful that yourself. Of course the best scenario would be that your teacher was enlightened, but, let’s face it, such teachers are quite rare. Never forget that hundreds of thousands of people came into contact with the Buddha but only a minority of them became enlightened. It depends as much on the disciple as it does the student. We should be as concerned about being the right type of disciple as having the right type of teacher.

 

NDM: In your view does having this "Persistent Non-Symbolic Experiences" sound anything like being an arahant that the Buddha spoke about? http://nonsymbolic.org/PNSE-Article.pdf

 

Venerable Shravasti Dhammika:  Persistent Non-Symbolic Delusion! There is no doubt that during the Buddhas time some lay people attained enlightenment, although not many. Logically, there is no reason why they cannot. I think the either/or duality needs to be examined more carefully – being either a monk/nun or lay man/woman. In reality it is not whether you are a monastic or a lay person but what kind of lifestyle you are living. I have met laymen and woman who lived rather monastic-like lives and I have certainly met many monks who are more involved in worldly pursuits than most lay people are. I think the way some lay people are just as conducive to spiritual growth as the better monasteries.

 

 

 

END OF INTERVIEW