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Winter 2013  

 

 

 

THE CELIBACY QUESTION

 

 ATMA VICHARA

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

8. ALAN JACOBS

ALAN JACOBS was born in 1929 in London. He was a wartime evacuee to the United States at the age of 10, and lived in New York State, attending the Irving School in Tarrytown. He returned to England in 1943 and went to Malvern College, and then served in the Royal Army Education Corps for National Service. He entered the family business and was trained in Management Studies and Clothing Manufacture. He was later appointed the Production Director of Willerby Tailoring. When this family business was sold he became an art dealer and established a reputation as a specialist in Dutch and Flemish 17thC. Paintings, ending up with a Gallery in Duke Street St James’s. On retirement he attended poetry workshops at Morley College and the City Literary Institute where he was taught Prosody by the Poets Christopher Reid and the late Julia Casterton. He later became a Professional Life Coach (Coaching Academy), A Neuro Linguistic Programme Practitioner and then an author.

From an early age he has been interested in religion and mysticism. He commenced a personal search for truth, and studied comparative religion. He then entered the Gurdjieff Society in 1957 and remained there until the early seventies. He then met Jiddu Krishnamurti, and studied his teachings until 1979. Next, he discovered Ramana Maharshi and became familiar with his extensive literature and spiritual practice. He is currently President of the Ramana Maharshi Foundation UK.

His first book was Dutch And Flemish 17th C. Painters, A Collectors Guide for McGraw Hill. He then compiled an Anthology the 'Element Book of Mystical Verse' for Element Books, now republished as 'Poetry For The Spirit', by Watkins Publishing and Barnes & Noble. As a Poet he has versified, for ‘O’ Books both the 'Bhagavad Gita', 'The Principal Upanishads', and 'The Meditations of Marcus Aurelius', as well as compiling a major prose anthology for them entitled 'The Ocean Of Wisdom'. For Watkins Publishing he edited 'Ramana Shankara And The Forty Verses', versified the 'Essential Gnostic Gospels' and compiled an Anthology, the 'Wisdom of Ramesh Balsekar'. XLibris have published a volume of his own poetry, 'Myrobalan of The Magi' and a History of London from a spiritual perspective entitled 'Mysterious London. He recently completed the anthologies 'The Wisdom The Native American Indians', 'Plato's Republic An Abridgemnent and Modernisation' and 'When Jesus Lived in India' all for Watkins Publishing.

His Poetry collection of Mastering Music Walks The Sunlit Sea contains only sonnets and roundels. He has just had his '108 Sonnets for Awakening' published by O Books. He has been regularly published by the Poetry Magazine Reflections', and compiled an anthology of their Poets for the Rowan Press. He has three children, Laura Jacobs Bsc.B.A.Phd, a specialist in Milton Studies, Dr.Keith Jacobs M.A.,Phd, Asst.Prof.of Sociology at the University of Tasmania, Graham Jacobs, A Senior Partner at St.James' Place, Investment Advisors, and six grandchildren. He now lives in London, and annually visits India. 

 

 

 

INTERVIEW

NDM:  Alan, can you please answer these two questions that were submitted by Stuart Sovatsky, PHD

Question 1. Vedanta, Taoism, Buddhism, Judeo-Christian Gnosticism, Mystical Sufism, all laud sexual transcendence of duality and desire verified by transcendence of sex, from Buddha to Dalai Lama and millions of others in India over the millenniums. Has modern non-dualism created something new where sex and desire are not transcended?

Alan Jacobs: The recent great Advaita Vedanta Sage Sri Bhagavan Ramana Maharshi, my own Sat Guru, has had tremendous influence on attitudes to this question. In a well circulated answer to a question by the famed W.Y. Evan Wentz, author and translator of the Tibetan Book of the Dead, on the 24th January 1935, Evan Wentz asked :-

' Is not brahmacharya (celibacy) necessary for realisation of the Self?' [Talks With Sri Ramana Maharshi].  

The Maharshi replied as follows ' Brahmacharya is 'living in Brahman'. 'It has no connection with celibacy as commonly understood.

A real Brahmachari, that is one who lives in Brahman, finds bliss in the Brahman which is the same as the Self. Why then should you look for other sources of happiness? In fact the emergence from the Self has been the cause of all the misery.

Wentz: ' Celibacy is a sine qua non for Yoga?' Maharshi:' So it is, Celibacy is certainly an aid to Realisation among so many other aids.

Wentz: Is it not then indispensable? Can a married man Realise the Self?'

Maharshi ' Certainly, it is a matter of fitness of the mind. Married or unmarried, a man can Realise the Self, because that is here and now. If it were not so, but attainable by some efforts at some other time, and it were new and something to be acquired, it would not be worthy of pursuit. Because what is not natural cannot be permanent either. But what I say is that the Self is here and now and alone.'

This definite pronouncement settled the whole question for his Devotees, and many of his followers who were married, consequently became Self Realised under his guidance. This point of view quickly became current amongst all modern Hindu and Advaita Teachers so that in this widely current form of modern Non Dualism, sex and desire are not regarded as obstacles to Self Realisation. To what degree this has affected Sufism, Kabbalah, Gnostic Christianity and Buddhism I cannot say, but the Maharshi as a very great and highly important World Guru has made it perfectly plain that sexual desire is not a hindrance. I believe his pronouncement has become well known and circulated to other Non Dual Traditions. He has tremendous authority in such matters.

Ramana did say that celibacy was an aid. This is because it has been widely accepted in religious traditions that not 'spilling the seed' in any form adds to spiritual strength because the ojas or seminal fluid is held in the body. This superstition may appeal to some spiritual aspirants in the different mystical traditions, but it is certainly not a necessity, as the Maharshi affirms. Some forms of modern day Tantric Practice have sexual relations without ejaculation, but not all.

Question 2. Is this a higher state than what Buddha and founder of advaita, Adi Shankara, taught to monks and lay people and lived personally?

Alan Jacobs: In my opinion, as a Devotee of the great Ramana Maharshi, I would say that this earlier point of view has been transcended by his great authority both in theory and practice.

NDM: Would you mind please answering these follow up questions?

When Sri Ramana was asked how long should enquiry be practised? What is non-attachment? He answered.

Sri Ramana: As long as there are vishaya vasanas (subtle tendencies of the mind in relation to objects of sense-gratification) in the mind, the enquiry 'Who am I?' is necessary. As and when thoughts arise, one should, then and there, annihilate them all through self-enquiry in the very place of their origin. Not giving attention to anything other than oneself is non-attachment or desirelessness; not leaving the Self is jnana [true knowledge]. In truth, these two [non-attachment and desirelessness] are one and the same. Just as a pearl diver, tying a stone to his waist, dives into the sea and takes the pearl lying on the bottom, so everyone, diving deeply within himself in a detached way can obtain the pearl of the Self. If one resorts uninterruptedly to remembrance of one's real nature until one attains the Self, that alone will be sufficient. As long as there are enemies within the fort, they will continue to come out. If one continues to cut all of them down as and when they emerge, the fort will fall into our hands.

Is he not saying to keep practising until one has rendered the "vishaya vasanas" non binding, and to continue to cut them down as they arise, not to act out on them?

Alan Jacobs:  Yes that is my understanding. He gave many many suggestions on Self Enquiry to be found in His Talks. The main thrust was that one should continue the atma vichara until all the latent vasanas were removed and then the Spiritual heart would open and the Self Realsiation take place.

NDM:  If someone is still acting out on adharmic vasanasa for example, would this indicate there is no true moksha there? No legitimate self-realisation, or just a very shallow, shaky or phony one at best?

Alan Jacobs: Not necessarily as benign vasanas may continue after Moksha such as the Buddhi or intellectual discriminative factor. Only the malign vasanas from the egotistic mind need to be removed as they veil the Real Self. These are generally Adharmic.

NDM:  Did Sri Ramana say that there are stages to moksha or speak about anything like this or map out any markers, or signs, indications to look out for the way that Ramakrishna did with attachment to"woman and gold"?

Alan Jacobs: Bhagavan did not believe there were stages to Moksha or advocate any , he saw Realisation as a sudden event consequent on the practices of intense Self Enquiry and Devotional Surrender.

NDM: Question: Did Ramana also practice or attain nirvikalpa samadhi (in a cave) after his teenage Self  Realisation?  If so, why did he practice this if his intense self enquiry was enough?

Alan Jacobs: Bhagavan after his initial Self Realisation could enter either nirvikalpa samahdi or sahaja samahdi at will and often would do so for the Blissful Peace that these states contained. Many Jnanis can enter Samahdi at will after Self Realisation. It is no longer a matter of practice, but a necessary beneficial respite of peace after Teaching, Writing, Editing, and the other activities which he undertook during his more than fifty years of residence at Arunachala.

 NDM: Did at any point did he speak about or teach others how to attain samadhi in the way as outlined in the yoga sutras of Patanjali and his eight limbs of Yoga

·         Yama refers to the five abstentions: how we relate to the external world.

·         Ahimsa: non-violence, inflicting no injury or harm to others or even to one's own self, it goes as far as nonviolence in thought, word and deed.

·         Satya: non-illusion; truth in word and thought.

·         Asteya: non-covetousness, to the extent that one should not even desire something that is his own; non-stealing.

·         Brahmacharya: abstinence, particularly in the case of sexual activity. Also, responsible behavior with respect to our goal of moving toward the truth. It suggests that we should form relationships that foster our understanding of the highest truths. "Practicing brahmacharya means that we use our sexual energy to regenerate our connection to our spiritual self. It also means that we don’t use this energy in any way that might harm others."

·         Aparigraha: non-possessiveness; non-hoarding

  • Niyama refers to the five observances: how we relate to ourselves, the inner world.

·         Shaucha: cleanliness of body and mind.

·         Santosha: satisfaction; satisfied with what one has.

·         Tapas: austerity and associated observances for body discipline and thereby mental control.

·         Svādhyāya: study of the Vedic scriptures to know about God and the soul, which leads to introspection on a greater awakening to the soul and God within,

·         Ishvarapranidhana: surrender to (or worship of) God.

  • Asana: Discipline of the body: rules and postures to keep it disease-free and for preserving vital energy. Correct postures are a physical aid to meditation, for they control the limbs and nervous system and prevent them from producing disturbances.
  • Pranayama: control of life force energies. Beneficial to health, steadies the body and is highly conducive to the concentration of the mind.
  • Pratyahara: withdrawal of senses from their external objects.

The last three levels are called internal aids to Yoga (antaranga sadhana)

  • Dharana: concentration of the Chitta upon a physical object, such as a flame of a lamp, the midpoint of the eyebrows, or the image of a deity.
  • Dhyana: steadfast meditation. Undisturbed flow of thought around the object of meditation (pratyayaikatanata). The act of meditation and the object of meditation remain distinct and separate.
  • Samadhi: oneness with the object of meditation.

 Alan Jacobs:  He gave many suggestions to questioners on Samahdi. They are recorded in His Talks which can all be looked up in the voluminous index to his book TALKS WITH SRI RAMANA MAHARSHI, which you can read if you wish. www.dasglueck.de/download/maharshi/talks_with_sri_ramana_maharshi_complete.pdf

His answers were always tailored to the exact need and state of the questioner which he was always able to discern. Broadly speaking they were in harmony with the Patanjali Eight Limbs of Yoga. He was even able to transfer to a questioning devotee the experience of Samahdi by the power of his gaze if he felt it would be beneficial at the time.

  

END OF INTERVIEW