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A Link Between Past Lives, Time and Forgiveness
by Sarah Meskanen

 

Most people would agree that time seems to change speed in the most annoying way. I remember as a child being dragged to a school concert to witness my sister’s first attempts as a violinist! I recall feeling genuinely puzzled as to how my mother, who I knew had definitely sat through the entire performance with me, could possibly have thought the time had gone quickly!

The usual explanation for such anomalies is that it is not time that changes, but our perception of time. I agree that it is our perception of time that changes, but I do not feel that time does not change, because I do not believe time is real. All time is imagined and depends entirely on our perception of it, for it to seem to exist at all. In other words, time is part of our belief system, and we are only aware of time because we think it is real.

The perception of linear time allows our awareness to arrange whatever we imagine into separate, individual moments that seem to form a sequence within our mind. Using this tool, we imagine separation on the basic level of apparent physical form- ( e.g. this person appears to be a separate person from me), by observing them as seeming to be physically disconnected from ourselves. We can also imagine events unfolding, however, and this allows the expression of ego through apparent interactions with other people, who we believe to be separate from us. Time, therefore, is a tool that allows separation to appear to exist.

I think that understanding time is very difficult to do when you have no reference outside of it. I first knew time was not all it seemed, when I realised that travelling to visit past lifetimes can be done simply by intention alone.

To remember eating breakfast this morning, I simply travel back in my mind to breakfast time. Of course, I never actually ate breakfast- I am imagining the entire thing, because my apparent life as a separate human being is just a way to play out my imagination on what it may be like to be separate- that is all this illusion is. So I am not actually travelling back in time, I am simply seeming to experience the sequence of snapshots from my imagination of eating breakfast. Of course, (and this is the whole point) none of my apparent previous lifetimes actually happened either- they, too, are imagined. So to seem to visit a past life, I just recall a memory from another lifetime rather than from the one I seem to be living now. It is no different. It is just recalling memories from my imagination.

So I could represent time visually as a short length of thin wire. I take each end and bring them together, so I have a loop in the shape of the loop of an ankh. The beginning and end of my time line are represented by the same point, which is the point on the narrow end of the loop where the two ends of wire meet. My apparent lifetimes seem to be represented along the loop. Although I can visit any lifetime, because they are all equally accessible, the point where the ends meet is the most interesting. The first apparent point in time is represented as being the first discernable part of the wire’s length emerging from the start of the wire. It would represent more than one instant seeming to be perceived, and linear time sets off, as it were. In other words, separation is imagined. At the far end of our length of wire, however, if the sense of awareness represented using this length

of wire were to let go of perceiving separation, (we are getting excitingly close to enlightenment at this point!) there would be no need for perception of linear time, because there would be nothing to need to seem to make separate. So the beginning and the end of the perception of time are represented in the same way, as the same point, because they are exactly the same!

After seeming to visit many other lifetimes, I had an experience that took me completely by surprise. I think I had an experience of being aware of all apparent time condensed into one moment. I am still not sure if my awareness was at the point of the ankh where the two ends meet- it certainly felt like it may have been. During this experience, my sense of identity was not with any worldly physical body. My sense of identity seemed to be with what I have, at the moment anyway, chosen to call the Mind.

I knew with inconceivable detail every thought that every ‘person’ had ever seemed to have had in every lifetime I had ever imagined them to have lived. I knew every movement they had ever seemed to make, because I knew that I imagined them making it. I was aware of every blade of grass, and every insect that had ever seemed to be, throughout the universe and more besides. I also knew of many other expressions of my imagination beyond that of our apparent universe. There were many, and they varied in apparent complexity. I knew everything about the entire illusion in that one moment. It was not fantastic to me and it did not feel special, because I knew it is not real. It felt completely natural somehow, and it did not occur to me that it should ever be any different. I also felt it to be perfect. There was nothing about it that I felt needed to be changed. There was complete acceptance.

I know one way (there may be many other ways) to let go of that sense of separation and so move towards this point. Forgiveness

allows all judgment to be released, and when comparisons make way for complete acceptance, it is no longer possible to see differences, and all is One.

With a shift in the belief system, I believe forgiveness can be a far more powerful tool than time.

Sarah Meskanen

sarah.matarah@gmail.com